Summary. Fifteen sequences, from the counter to the complaint.
1. Before you ask
- Decide what you need, not what is wrong. "I need a table without a fixed bench" beats "this place is inaccessible."
- Decide who can grant it — the person in front of you, or someone else.
- Decide the minimum you must disclose. Usually: that you have a disability and a disability-related need. Not the diagnosis.
- Have a fallback in mind that would also work.
2. The request itself (three sentences)
- "I have a disability that affects [function]."
- "The barrier is [concrete]."
- "I'd like [specific, actionable request]."
- Do not lead with the statute.
- Stop and let them respond.
- Get a name.
3. Who to ask, by setting
- Business → employee → manager → corporate accessibility / guest relations
- Government, court, school, transit, police → the ADA coordinator (published by name; the fastest route that exists)
- Housing → on-site manager → regional or corporate property office → owner
- Airline → the Complaints Resolution Official (available at every airport, by title)
- Hospital or university → the Section 504 coordinator or patient advocate
- Anywhere → the DOJ ADA Information Line for technical questions
4. Documentation — the minimum
- Obvious disability and obvious need → no documentation required.
- Where needed, a provider letter establishing only:
- You have a disability under the applicable law
- There is a disability-related need for the specific accommodation
- Do NOT include: diagnosis · treatment history · medications · prognosis · records
- Do not sign a blanket medical release. Offer the targeted letter instead.
- If more is demanded: "I've provided documentation of the disability and the need. Please tell me what specifically is missing."
5. The interactive process
- Respond to reasonable clarifying questions.
- Consider alternatives in good faith.
- Be firm about the need, flexible about the method.
- If the alternative does not work, say specifically why — vagueness reads as satisfaction.
- Set your own deadline in writing. There is usually no fixed federal one, and indefinite silence functions as a denial.
6. Businesses (ADA Title III)
- Reasonable modification of policies, unless it would fundamentally alter the service
- Effective communication and auxiliary aids — at no charge to you
- Barrier removal in existing facilities where readily achievable
- Full accessibility for new construction and alterations — no "readily achievable" excuse
- If removal is not readily achievable, alternative methods are required — portable ramp · doorbell · curbside · phone order · retrieving items
- Mention the federal small business access credit and barrier removal deduction — it reframes the cost
7. Government (ADA Title II)
- Call the ADA coordinator first.
- Ask about the entity's grievance procedure and use it — it creates a record.
- Primary consideration must be given to your expressed choice of auxiliary aid.
- Program accessibility: the program viewed in its entirety must be reachable — which can mean relocating a hearing, meeting, or class.
- Courts: interpreters, assistive listening, accessible jury service, filing accommodations.
- Voting: accessible polling place and voting system, curbside where offered, assistance of your choice.
8. Service animals — three different regimes
In a business (ADA):
- A dog individually trained to do work or perform tasks related to the disability
- Emotional support without task training does not qualify
- Staff may ask only two questions: (1) Is the dog a service animal required because of a disability? (2) What work or task has it been trained to perform?
- They may not: ask about your disability · require documentation or registration · require a demonstration · charge a pet fee · require a vest · segregate you
- There is no federal registry. Online certificates prove nothing and are not required.
- Exclusion only if: out of control and uncorrected, or not housebroken
- Allergies and fear of dogs are not grounds — separate the people, don't exclude the animal
In housing (FHA):
- Broader — an assistance animal, including an ESA with no training, may be a reasonable accommodation
- The test is whether it alleviates an effect of the disability
- No pet fee or deposit. No breed or weight restrictions.
- Documentation of the need may be requested where the need is not obvious
On an aircraft (ACAA):
- Trained dog, with the airline's DOT forms submitted in advance — submit the day you book
- Emotional support animals are not required to be accommodated as service animals
9. Housing — know which tool you need
- Reasonable accommodation = change in rules, policies, practices, services. Landlord pays (usually nothing).
- Assistance animal · reserved accessible parking · live-in aide despite occupancy limit · rent date matched to benefits deposit · accessible-format notices · early lease termination · transfer to an accessible unit
- Reasonable modification = physical change. Tenant pays in private housing; landlord must permit.
- Grab bars · ramp · widened doorways · lowered cabinets · roll-in shower · visual smoke alarms · lever handles
- Landlord may require reasonable interior restoration at move-out — not for changes that don't interfere with the next tenant
- Ask whether the property receives federal assistance — under Section 504 the recipient generally pays for structural modifications
- Buildings first occupied after March 1991 with four or more units must already meet seven design requirements — a violation then is a violation now
- Answer to "we treat everyone the same": equal application of a neutral rule is exactly what creates the need
10. Air travel
- Request assistance at booking and again at check-in; get a confirmation number
- Submit service animal forms early
- Photograph your wheelchair before it is stowed
- Inspect on arrival; report damage before leaving the airport and get written acknowledgment
- Ask for the Complaints Resolution Official for any on-the-spot problem
- Complain in writing to the airline and to the Department of Transportation
11. Transit and paratransit
- Fixed route must run accessible vehicles, announce stops, deploy lifts on request
- Complementary paratransit for those who cannot use fixed route, within defined area/hours, fare tied to fixed route
- Appeal every paratransit eligibility denial — frequently reversed; the appeal lets you explain what the form did not capture
- Rideshare/taxi refusal over a service animal → report to the company and the regulator
12. Digital access
- Ask for what you need to accomplish, not for a redesign
- Report the specific barrier: unlabeled field · keyboard trap · uncaptioned video · missing alt text · low contrast
- Ask who handles digital accessibility and follow up in writing
- The operative benchmark almost everywhere is WCAG 2.1 Level AA
13. Escalation ladder
- Put it in writing — what you asked, when, who, what they said, what you want, by when
- Send it to the person whose job it is (§3 above)
- Document: dates · names · exact words · photos with a measurement in frame · witnesses · costs incurred
- Use the entity's grievance procedure if one exists
- File the agency complaint
14. Where and when to file — the deadlines
- ADA Title II/III → Department of Justice (free, online, no lawyer)
- Housing → HUD or a substantially equivalent state/local agency — generally within ONE YEAR; private suit generally within two years
- Air travel → Department of Transportation
- Federally funded program → the funding agency's office for civil rights
- Employment → EEOC — 180 or 300 days, the shortest deadline in this area
- State civil rights agency → frequently the best option: broader coverage, damages Title III does not provide
- Understand the remedies:
- Title III private suit: injunction and attorney's fees ONLY — no damages
- Title II / Section 504: damages available, usually requiring deliberate indifference; no emotional distress damages under Section 504
- FHA: compensatory and punitive damages plus fees — usually the better vehicle
- State law: check it first. It is often the ceiling-raiser.
15. Retaliation
- Retaliation, coercion, intimidation, threats, and interference are separately prohibited
- Watch for: rent increase · non-renewal · sudden lease violations · a ban · schedule changes · a new "policy"
- Document separately and immediately, with the timeline showing the sequence
- A retaliation claim is frequently stronger and cleaner than the underlying claim
Related documents
- Disability Rights in Everyday Life
- Requesting Disability Accommodations and Enforcing Access Rights
- Disability Rights Toolkit
- Special Education Advocacy Toolkit
- Social Security Disability Application and Appeal Checklist
- Civil Commitment and Mental Health Rights Checklist
Educational only, not legal advice. State disability and public accommodation laws frequently provide broader rights and better remedies than federal law.